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Preventable Pet Health Problems

By: Bec Harris

According to veterinarian Dr Ewen Blaikie, dental disease, weight gain, and skin or ear issues are among the top reasons pets visit the clinic – yet simple lifestyle changes can make a significant difference.

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How Parents Can Lead Their Family In Faith

By: Kourtney Smith

While church and youth group helps, the biggest influence on a child’s faith comes from home.

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Pilates: What It Really Is and Why It Might Be What You Need

By: Bec Harris

If you’ve ever wondered “what is Pilates?” and whether it’s right for you, you’re not alone. For many people, getting fit can feel intimidating.

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Movement isn’t always about chasing personal bests or pushing through intense workouts. Instead, it’s about feeling comfortable and confident in your body again – especially after injury, chronic pain, busy seasons, or long breaks from exercise.

That’s why Pilates for beginners, injury recovery, and gentle strength training so often come up in conversation. However, despite its popularity, Pilates is still widely misunderstood.

Physiotherapist Melanie Cauliffe explains what Pilates really is, where it came from, and how it can support people returning to movement – not just elite athletes or dancers. “Pilates was originally designed for people recovering from injury” says Mel.

It Didn’t Start as a Fitness Trend

Although Pilates is often associated with boutique studios and reformer classes, it didn’t begin as a trendy workout.

Joseph Pilates developed the method in the early 20th century. Originally, he used controlled, repetitive movements to help people rehabilitate from injury. He even designed spring-based resistance systems so bed-bound patients could strengthen their bodies safely.

That early equipment later evolved into what we now know as the Pilates reformer.

From there, Pilates moved into the dance community and eventually into mainstream fitness. Yet at its core, it has always focused on:

  • Controlled movement
  • Core strength
  • Alignment and posture
  • Functional, everyday movement

In other words, Pilates builds strength without encouraging you to push through pain or burn out.

Classical, Contemporary and Clinical: What’s the Difference?

One reason Pilates can feel confusing is that not all classes are the same.

Classical Pilates

This follows the original sequence of exercises created by Joseph Pilates. Instructors stick closely to the traditional order and structure.

Contemporary Pilates

This version allows instructors more flexibility. They design classes with flow, variation and modern movement science in mind.

Clinical Pilates

Clinical Pilates, however, integrates physiotherapy principles. This approach often suits people recovering from injury or managing pain.

Mel highlighted an important difference in how instructors treat the spine. Instead of flattening the lower back into the floor – a cue many of us grew up hearing – clinical Pilates encourages a neutral spine.

Why does that matter?

Because strengthening your body in its natural alignment helps translate that strength into daily life. Standing, lifting, walking and sitting all rely on neutral positioning. Therefore, training this way supports real-world movement, not just mat exercises.

Mat vs Reformer: Which Is Better?

Another common question is whether mat Pilates or reformer Pilates is better.

The honest answer? They serve different purposes.

Mat Pilates

Mat Pilates uses your body weight and gravity for resistance. As a result, your core, posture and control remain constantly engaged.

Although it looks simple, mat work can be surprisingly challenging. You can’t rely on equipment for support, which makes it highly effective for building stability and strength.

Reformer Pilates

Reformer Pilates uses a spring-loaded carriage that guides movement. The adjustable resistance supports the body while still providing challenge.

Because of this support, reformer classes often suit people:

  • Returning after injury
  • Managing joint limitations
  • Experiencing back or hip pain
  • Rebuilding strength gradually

Ultimately, it’s not about which option is “better.” Instead, you need to ask yourself: What does my body need right now?

It Isn’t About Competition

One of the most reassuring takeaways from the conversation was this simple truth:

Pilates is you against you.

You don’t need to keep up with the person next to you. You don’t need to prove anything. And you definitely shouldn’t ignore pain.

In fact, Mel offered this important reminder: if something feels wrong, don’t do it. Even self-imposed pressure can lead to injury if you override your body’s signals.

That’s why proper guidance matters, especially when returning to exercise after injury. Learning safe posture, recognising what “good effort” feels like, and progressing gradually can protect your body long-term.

Movement Doesn’t Have to Be Extreme to Be Effective

Whether you choose Pilates, walking, swimming or another low-impact exercise, remember this: fitness is not one-size-fits-all.

Strength, endurance and cardiovascular health are different aspects of overall wellbeing. However, you can build all three through consistent, sustainable movement. In fact, consistency matters more than intensity.

As Mel says “Turning up is the hardest thing – and it’s already a big win.”

If 2026 is the year you want to move again, Pilates may not be about doing more. Instead, it might be about learning how to move better – with control, confidence and kindness toward your body.


Article supplied with thanks to Sonshine.

More Than Your Job: Finding Identity Beyond Your Career

By: Telana Sladen

For many people, introducing themselves sounds something like this: “Hi, I’m Sarah. I’m a teacher,” or “I’m Mike, a builder.” Our work often becomes closely tied to who we believe we are. But is our job really meant to define our identity?

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Four God-Centered Ways to Overcome Burnout

By: Telana Sladen

Burnout has become a familiar word in modern life. Many people describe themselves as constantly tired, overwhelmed, or emotionally drained. Yet while burnout may feel normal, it was never meant to define how we live.

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Michelle Moriarty: Why We Grieve Over Celebrity Deaths

By: Bec Harris

When news breaks that a beloved celebrity has died, many people are surprised by how deeply it affects them. Even though we may never have met the person, the sadness can feel real and personal.

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Revisiting Your New Year’s Resolutions – (Remember Those?)

By: Bec Harris

It’s easy to start the new year full of enthusiasm for change. But by this time of year, many resolutions have fizzled.

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Pokies, Sports Betting and Kids: How Gambling Is Harming Australians

By: Bec Harris

Reverend Tim Costello, Chief Advocate for the Alliance for Gambling Reform, reveals the staggering scale of gambling harm in Australia. From pokies to sports betting, Australians are losing billions, and the consequences are devastating.

The Scale of Gambling Losses

Australia loses $32 billion each year to gambling, the highest per capita in the world. Tim explained: “The nation that comes second in gambling losses is 30% less than us. The world looks at us and asks, how did we allow this?”

Pokies account for $17 billion, sports betting $6 billion, with horse racing and greyhounds adding more. Even more shocking: “We have 20% of all the world’s pokies, but 75% are in pubs and clubs. Everywhere else, pokies are only in casinos.”

Unlike casinos, pokies are everywhere: in pubs, clubs, and even shopping areas. Australians often gamble unintentionally, with machines designed for predatory addiction.

The Impact on Families and Young People

The reach of gambling goes beyond adults. Tim highlighted a growing problem among youth: “Influencers are paid by the pokies industry to show how fun it is to feed cash into machines.”

Combined with 900 gambling ads a day on free-to-air TV, many children are absorbing adult gambling behaviours. “Eighty per cent of ten-year-olds now know the odds on AFL and NRL games,” Tim said. “The normalisation is devastating.”

What Can Be Done?

Advocacy is key. Tim outlined practical steps:

  • Pokies: Lobby state politicians. Each state has jurisdiction.
  • Sports betting: Contact federal representatives, especially the Communications Minister.

“Get boots on the ground. Send letters. Touch base with your politicians,” Tim urged. Western Australia sets a strong example, with no pokies in pubs or clubs and much lower gambling losses.

A Call for National Reform

Despite bipartisan support for a national gambling regulator, recommendations remain ignored. “We need to treat gambling as a health issue, not a sports issue,” Tim said. “Where there’s gambling in a family, there’s four times more domestic violence.”

Public support is overwhelming: 80% of Australians want gambling ads banned, yet action is lagging. “Politicians need to listen. The public has spoken,” Tim added.


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A 16-Year-Old Aussie Teen Is Spreading Faith Through Fragrance

By: Bec Harris

At just 16 years old, Ryan Oosthuizen is doing something remarkable. He’s not just starting a business, he’s starting a ministry.

Ryan is the founder of BoTL – Blessings of the Lord, a Christian fragrance brand based in Perth. What began as a prayer, when he was just 15, has become a purpose-driven business designed to spread faith in a subtle but powerful way.

From Prayer to Purpose

Ryan didn’t wake up one day with a business plan. Instead, he started with a question.

“What am I meant to do with my life?”

Like many young people, he felt uncertain about the future. So he did something simple but bold. He prayed. He asked God for direction. According to Ryan, the answer was clear.

God gave him a vision. That vision became BoTL.

With support from his parents and a strong Christian upbringing, Ryan stepped out in faith. His goal was not profit alone, it was impact.

Turning Pain Into Purpose

Ryan Oosthuizen’s journey has not been easy. He lost his brother, and the grief was deep. The questions were heavy. Yet, instead of stopping, Ryan chose to move forward.

He decided to honour his brother by living with purpose. He committed to showing others that no matter what happens, faith can carry you through. With God at the centre, Ryan believes nothing is impossible.

That belief now fuels everything BoTL stands for.

What Does BoTL Mean?

BoTL stands for Blessings of the Lord. But it is more than a name.

Ryan describes BoTL as a message in a bottle. Each fragrance is designed to spark curiosity, start conversations, and gently introduce people to faith.

It is not about preaching, it’s about presence. “It’s a subtle way to help people encounter God,” Ryan says. “Even through something as simple as smelling good.”

Why Fragrance?

The answer is practical and personal. Ryan loves fragrance – he always has. He also knows that first impressions matter. People respond to scent – it opens doors. More importantly, Ryan believes God can use anything, even perfume.

By combining passion with purpose, Ryan found a way to grow God’s Kingdom through something he genuinely loves.

Building a Fragrance Brand at 15

Starting a fragrance business is no small task. Especially at 15. Ryan learned quickly. He researched online, watched videos, studied scent profiles and fragrance notes. Eventually, he partnered with a fragrance manufacturer in Dubai.

Ryan selected specific accords and notes. From 14 fragrance samples, he narrowed the range down to four signature scents. Those four are now in production, with 1,000 bottles arriving in Perth.

The BoTL Fragrance Range

Each BoTL fragrance carries its own identity:

  • Aroma Day – A fresh, uplifting men’s scent with citrus notes
  • The Chosen – A deeper men’s fragrance with sandalwood and vanilla
  • Jubilation – A sweet women’s scent featuring rum and caramel
  • Perfection – A youthful floral blend with grapefruit and spice

The fragrances were tested by more than 50 people. The favourites rose quickly and the choice was clear.

Marketing With Meaning

BoTL’s marketing strategy focuses on social media. Ryan uses TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook to share his story, his faith, and his fragrances. He shares short videos, honest conversations and has a clear purpose.

Some Christian influencers have already partnered with him. The goal is simple. Reach people where they are and let the story speak for itself.

Distribution From a Garage

Ryan Oosthuizen’s operation is hands-on – very hands-on. The stock is being stored in his family garage. Ryan packs every order himself. He labels the boxes. He even sprays fragrance inside so the package smells great on arrival.

Customers can choose local pickup in Mandurah or Australia Post shipping across Australia and New Zealand. International shipping is planned for the future.

A Business With an Eternal Vision

Ryan doesn’t see BoTL as just a brand – he sees it as a ministry.

His long-term vision is global. He hopes the business will fund mission work around the world, from the poorest communities to the wealthiest cities, Ryan wants to share the love of Jesus with anyone willing to listen.

A Message to Young Dreamers

Ryan Oosthuizen’s advice is simple. If God puts something on your heart, do it.

Don’t wait, don’t overthink it. Pray, talk to people, take the step. Ryan believes that if God is behind it, nothing can stop it.

Age doesn’t matter. Background doesn’t matter. Faith does.

Supporting Young Faith-Filled Entrepreneurs

Ryan’s story is a reminder that God can work through anyone, at any age, in any industry.

From loss came purpose. From prayer came vision. BoTL is more than perfume, it is proof that when faith leads, impact follows. Check out the BoTL range here.


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Building Resilient Kids as We Head Into a New Year

By: Bec Harris

As we head into a new year, many parents are reflecting on family routines and goals for 2026. One common challenge is helping children take responsibility for everyday tasks – like putting away school bags, picking up towels, or tidying toys – without constant reminders. While it may seem like children are acting deliberately, understanding what’s happening in their brains can completely change how we respond.

Learning Intervention Specialist, Natalie Nicholls from PLECS Learning, shared insights about resilient kids and how parents can take a compassionate, brain-based approach to executive functioning as they head into the new year.

Understanding the “See and Do” Approach

Natalie explained that expecting children to automatically complete tasks often overlooks how their brains process information. For example, a child may ignore a school bag left in the hallway, not out of defiance, but because their brain is overwhelmed with other priorities or sensory input.

“When we delve into the why underneath, it helps us get more action and the results we’re actually looking for,” Natalie said.

As we start a new year, parents can shift their perception. Instead of assuming a child is being difficult, ask: What else is going on in their brain right now? Recognising that each child – and adult – is wired differently is a crucial first step toward effective, compassionate guidance.

How Brain Chemistry Influences Behaviour

Natalie highlighted the role of dopamine, a chemical that influences motivation, task initiation, and attention. Low dopamine levels, often seen in children with ADHD traits, can make it harder for kids to start tasks or notice what needs to be done.

Parents can support their children in the new year by:

  1. Exploring ways to increase dopamine naturally
  2. Using structured strategies to teach children how to see and act on tasks

“We cannot expect a child’s behaviour to exceed the brain’s capacity,” Natalie explained. “This applies to adults too – when expectations exceed capacity, we get stressed, anxious, and overwhelmed.”

Understanding this principle allows parents to approach children with more compassion and less frustration in 2026 and beyond.

Trauma and Neurodiversity: Seeing the Bigger Picture

Natalie also addressed the impact of trauma and neurodiversity. Children who have experienced trauma may react based on the age at which the trauma occurred. Similarly, children with ADHD or other neurodiverse traits may appear hyperactive or withdrawn.

“The brain will go into protective mode,” Natalie said. “When parents are stressed too, their child’s nervous system mirrors that stress.”

Recognising these patterns ensures that teaching moments occur when both parent and child have the capacity to engage, rather than in moments of heightened emotion – a crucial approach to begin the year with calm and clarity.

Practical Steps for “See and Do”

Natalie outlined practical ways to implement this approach as families start fresh in the new year:

  1. Check Your Capacity First – Ensure you’re calm before addressing tasks. Teaching when triggered is ineffective.
  2. Start Small – Use micro-moments in everyday life. Speak out loud about what you see, e.g., “I see the dishwasher is full. What could we do?”
  3. Ask Questions, Don’t Command – Invite participation rather than issuing orders. For example: “Can you help me with the groceries?” instead of “Put the groceries away.”
  4. Praise the Action, Not the Person – Focus feedback on specific behaviour rather than personal traits: “You noticed the gate needed opening and did it – great work!”
  5. Build Life Skills – These micro-moments teach children to notice and act on tasks independently, a skill that extends to school, work, and life beyond the home.

“This isn’t just about a tidy house,” Natalie emphasised. “It’s about equipping children with a skill for life.”

A Kinder Approach for a Fresh Start

By focusing on compassion, brain capacity, and micro-teaching moments, parents can reduce frustration and help children develop independence as we head into 2026. Natalie’s approach encourages parents to shift perception, ask questions, and provide structured support, rather than relying on repeated commands or criticism.

“The goal is not a perfect house, but resilient kids who can see, decide, and act,” Natalie concluded.

Key Takeaways for Parents This New Year

  • Recognise your child’s brain capacity before setting expectations
  • Use questions and observation instead of commands
  • Praise specific actions, not personal traits
  • Focus on micro-moments to teach life-long skills

Implementing these strategies can help families start the new year with calmer routines, stronger bonds, and resilient, capable children ready to face the year ahead.


Article supplied with thanks to Sonshine.