Tag Archive for: conflict

How to Disagree Well: Some Practical Tips

By: Akos Balogh

Having a Gen Z teenage daughter means that Taylor Swift is often our companion in the car or around the house. Read more

The Dying Art of Disagreeing Well

By: Akos Balogh

‘Whatever you do, don’t bring up politics’, says my cousin as we walk into the restaurant. Read more

‘The Four Horsemen’ – AKA, The Four Patterns That Damage Relationships

By: Sabrina Peters

Dr. John Gottman, a prominent figure in the world of marriage and couples therapy, introduced a concept known as the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” to describe destructive communication patterns that can threaten relationships. Read more

If You’re Going to Disagree, At Least Do It Well

By: Michael McQueen

We need to learn how to disagree. In today’s culture, we are disagreeing constantly – but we are doing a terrible job of it. Read more

Boundary Styles: Where do You Sit on the Spectrum?

By: Sabrina Peters

Boundaries are the silent architects of our relationships. Read more

3 Keys to a Peaceful Family Gathering These Holidays

By: Michael McQueen

The holiday season is here. While rest is undoubtedly and necessarily a priority for most of us this year, the holidays can be a stressful time for many. Read more

10 Commandments for These Divided Times

By: Sheridan Voysey

A few years ago, researchers did a fascinating experiment. Wanting to know when people would step in to help a stranger, they asked participants to watch a woman named Elaine experience a series of mild electric shocks. Read more

Sunsets and Anger

By: Yvette Cherry

Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbour, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Ephesians 4:25- 27 Read more

Do You Trust Me?

By: Dr. John Townsend

Vicky sat at the kitchen table, stunned and hurt. Her four-year-old marriage to Alex, on which she had pinned so many hopes and dreams, seemed false. She had just heard from a friend that Alex had been seen lunching with an old girlfriend. Read more