Grieving Parents Turn Tragedy into Hope for ICU Families
By: Yvette McDonnell
After losing their son Jaaden in a tragic e-bike crash, Pastors Ross and Kathy Abraham are turning their pain into purpose—helping families facing the unimaginable.
“It was the knock [on the door] no parent wants,” Ross recalls, describing the moment police told them Jaaden had been admitted to ICU.
“We spent four days with him before he passed.”
A year on, the Abrahams have channelled their grief into a heartfelt initiative called Beautiful Crazy, a charity inspired by Jaaden’s own words during their last dinner together.
“He said, ‘You’ve got to admit, I’m a beautiful crazy,’” Kathy shared.
“It was his way of acknowledging the complexity and brilliance of his mind.”
Ross recently completed a gruelling 4,300km solo cycling journey from Perth to Byron Bay—one kilometre for every care bag they hope to distribute to ICU wards across Australia.
Each bag, worth $60, includes practical items like lip balm, snacks, blankets, and toothbrushes—essentials that meant the world when friends gifted them something similar during their own ICU experience.
“You don’t want to leave the room,” Kathy said.
“Water was a big one, lip balm… just simple things that helped in such a high-stress moment.”
Their goal? $258,000 to match the 4,300km Ross rode—bringing these bags to top-level ICUs and comforting families in crisis.
But their story isn’t just about charity. It’s about hope grounded in faith.
“When it all hit the fan, my first go-to was Scripture,” Kathy said.
“Every morning I got a word from God—sometimes it was even confirmed by someone else later that day.”
Ross admitted his faith journey took a different path.
“For months, I felt like God was behind a locked door.
“But Romans 8:28 kept coming back to me—God doesn’t waste a hurt.
“That gave me hope.”
Together, they’ve discovered that “joy and sadness can coexist” and that healing isn’t about forgetting but finding ways to grow around the grief.
Visit beautifulcrazy.org for more.
Article supplied with thanks to Hope Media.
Feature image: Sourced from Beautiful Crazy Instagram
