When a Loved One Goes to Prison: Finding Support and Hope
By: Joni Boyd
What happens when life suddenly throws you into a situation you never expected — like finding out someone close to you has been arrested?
For many, it’s a total shock.
As Dr. Amelia Haynes puts it, “It comes out of left field — and by the time the crime is revealed, they’re not always ‘loved ones’ anymore.”
Dr. Amelia tackles the deep, often hidden impact of incarceration on families — especially women left behind.
And it’s not just emotional — it’s practical, too.
Suddenly you’re managing finances alone, raising kids solo, and figuring out things you never had to before — all while carrying the heavy weight of stigma and shame.
“We do the crime, but friends and family also share the time,” Dr. Amelia says. And it’s so true.
Life doesn’t just pause because someone you know went to prison.
You’re left to pick up the pieces — often feeling isolated and invisible.
Organizations like Kairos Outside are changing the story.
They offer confidential, supportive weekends for women navigating life after a loved one’s incarceration.
Here, there’s no judgment. No assumptions.
Just women supporting women, showering each other with the unconditional acceptance they’ve been craving.
Some women even attend under pseudonyms because of the high-profile nature of their situation — that’s how much shame they’re battling.
But once they step into this space? Everything starts to change.
Fear melts away. Walls come down. Real healing begins.
Kairos Outside gives women a lifeline — practical tools for rebuilding life, and a community that says, “You are not alone.”
If you or someone you know is carrying the hidden burden of a loved one’s imprisonment, this episode is one you have to hear.
Article supplied with thanks to Hope Media.
Feature image: Canva
About the Author: Joni Boyd is a writer, based in the Hawkesbury Region of NSW. She is passionate about the power of stories shared, to transform lives.
