Let’s Talk About It: Female Autism 40+
By: Joni Boyd
More and more women are discovering they are on the autism spectrum later in life—often after 40.
For women diagnosed with autism later in life, understanding the condition is often part of a larger journey of self-growth.
Dr. Terry Lim explains that autism is not a one-size-fits-all condition; it’s a spectrum.
“People on the spectrum do get exhausted by social interaction… it’s about recognising the traits that may manifest and understanding how they impact one’s life,” he said.
Increased access to mental health information means more adults are being diagnosed, with one in 40 Australians on the spectrum.
However, for many women, the signs of autism were overlooked in childhood, as their traits were more subtle and didn’t fit the traditional mould.
This growing awareness is key to recognising how autism presents differently in women compared to men.
Women are often expected to “mask” their traits, which can lead to internal struggles, such as anxiety or depression.
“They kind of go under the radar as children… people assume the quiet girl in the corner is just normal,” Dr Amelia Haines said, highlighting the importance of gender-sensitive diagnostics and support systems.
With the right tools, autism can be redefined as a different neurotype, not a limitation.
Creating inclusive environments is essential for supporting autistic individuals Dr Lim explains.
It’s vital that workplaces foster a supportive culture, offering flexible arrangements and low-stimulus environments.
In personal relationships, self-acceptance is the first step, with familial and partner support being crucial for growth.
By embracing neurodiversity, we move closer to a world where everyone, no matter their neurotype, can thrive.
As Dr. Lim says, “If one finds a diagnosis helpful in accepting and understanding oneself, then that’s helpful.”
Article supplied with thanks to Hope Media.
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About the Author: Joni Boyd is a writer, based in the Hawkesbury Region of NSW. She is passionate about the power of stories shared, to transform lives.
